OK, this is probably going to be more just venting but if anyone has some advice, I'll take it. I'm getting annoyed with a co-worker who has also been trying to get pregnant. We're the same age, she just got married in August 2007, I've been married since July 2004, they started trying in July of last year, we've been trying since March 2006 (after putting it off an extra year which I now wish we never did)...she often acts like we're in the same boat and it drives me crazy!!! Especially since she's aware of all I've already gone through. She often makes comments about how long it has been for her with no luck (6 MONTHS!?!) and complains about others who are getting pregnant and not her and...all I want to say is, if you think 6 months is long, trying going on 2 years!!! She means well but I'm hitting my limit and finding it hard to bite my tongue. I'm at the point where if she says something again, I'm going to tell her she has no idea what a long time of trying feels like and to talk to me if/when she's in my boat. That and as much as I pray for my DH and I to get pregnant, I find I'm also praying for her to get pregnant soon so I don't have to listen to it anymore and because if she's getting this loopy after this short of time, she's going to go nuts if they end up having infertility!!! OK, I'm done. Like I said, I mostly just needed to vent. Being a co-worker, I couldn't really trust getting that off my chest to anyone without the chance of it getting back to her. ;-)
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