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This really stinks....

deleted_user
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I went to the doctor today to see if the IUI would be a go for Monday. Well the Chlomid helped with the follicles but my lining is not good. This is the first time that I had follicles on both sides. I go back on Monday to see if the IUI can be done on Tues and Wednesday but I think that will be too late. This whole thing is nor fair to any of us.
On my way home from the doctor the radio was having people calling in for what they wanted for Mother's Day and this one lady said I want my kids gone. She said she did not want to hear complaining, fighting or screaming. You know I would love that and I am sure many of you would also.
Thanks for listening to me rant.
Lili
Lili
I'm so sorry! And I have to agree with you....I would love that too! I hate hearing people complain about their kids, or look forward to having them out of the house. Just the other day a friend of mine said that she could hardly wait for her kids to grow up and move out, so they could have a quiet house, and more time together. I was thnking, you've GOT to be kidding! You're telling ME this, of all people??? Give me a break. But of course I didn't say anything like that. I just couldn't believe she would say that to me, and especially after we had just been talking about us and all our baby troubles. Good grief!
deleted_user
deleted_user
My DD is 16 and I think I am the only parent that I know that dreads when she has to go back to school (from vacations or even the weekend) Parents are so happy when it is back to school time and all I want to do is cry. I have always been this way with her and people think I am crazy. She will be a senior next year and I am already upset that soon she will be going off to college. I would never hold her back from the things that she wants and needs to do but I just love her so much---I just cannot understand why some parents want to get rid of their kids. She does drive me crazy sometimes but all in all I love having her around. I really hope that you can do your IUI.
deleted_user
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kyspier, i dread that to, and i have 8,6 and 2 twins.... i love everysingle tantrum every smile, knowing what we went through, what we lost, i would never complain

austch, drink lots of whole milk this weekend, it helps with egg quality and lining goodl ukc to you
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm sorry hon.. Drink pineapple juice 100%. A dear friend told me it's excellent for a lining. good luck:)
deleted_user
deleted_user
That you all for you thoughts and suggestions, hopefully they will work.
YvonneKB
YvonneKB
I've heard that using femara instead of clomid is better for your uterine lining. You might want to ask your RE about this for a future cycle. But hopefully this cycle works for you!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm so sorry! You're right, this whole thing is incredibly unfair. I hope that you can still can still do the iui Tuesday!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I so agree with you on that one! Mother's just don't understand how lucky they are. They dont' understand that people in our shoes are paying money to try to get what they can get naturally. I wish all women would have to read a book on infertility to know what it is like and maybe they'd appreciate their kids a bit more.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I totally agree with you! I would love to have annoying children :) To me that would be great to have right now!
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