Okay so I own the film the secret and I have watched it . It was my therapist who initially recommended I see the filmm Because I do have 2 mental health conditions .The secret focuses on visualizing but more importantly it focuses on the law of attraction If you put out positivity you will get positivity If you are putting out negative energy you will get negative energy back in return.. I myself have done the visualizing of the sperm meeting the egg and I am not pregnant YET but it never says in the film that if you visualize something it will happen right away. My thought process is what could be the harm or hurt of looking at life with a positive attitude.. instead of thinking do negative . for example instead of saying ill never get pregnant Ill never be a mom try saying I will have my baby ... Some people may not agree with me but for me the film has worked . love you all DEE