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Tested on day 28

deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey ladies, so it's day 28 and no sign of period. I have been peeing non stop for over a week with breast tenderness and low back pain. My breast tenderness tends to come in the evening hours which from what I have read is normal. I took a test this morning and it came back negative. This makes me so sad...however I'm wondering where is the period, why didn't it show up if I'm not pregnant or is the test wrong? My tempratures have been up and down all month, everyday is a wonder at what my temp will be. My body feels like it's pregnant, somedays all I want to do is throw up while other days all I want to do is eat. I'm so confused and wondering what's next if this doesn't work expecially if my period doesn't show up.

Why do our bodies have to be sooo hard to read?
deleted_user
deleted_user
GOOD LUCK GIRL. I HOPE YOU ARE PREGNANT .
deleted_user
deleted_user
Don't forget that mentally you might feel pregnant but it could be signs of your period and your hopes. Just be patient. Every time I'm on tww my period decides to be late and make me crazy. Retest in a day if you don't get your period. Good luck!!!! BABY DUST TO YOU..
turtlegirl
turtlegirl
How late are you? I find the more stressed out I am the longer my periods are and I definitely can make up all kinds of symptoms in my head. 28 days seems kind of early to me. I try and wait as long as I possibly can. It is too hard on me emotionally to keep getting negative tests
deleted_user
deleted_user
I do what you are doing every month. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you that you are pg. I hate to say that you have to wait it out b/c I hate hearing that too. I don't know why we can't have bigger signs that we are pg. We have the same symptoms right before our period as we do if we are pg. It can be so frustrating.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good luck! Is your period pretty regular? I woudl test again in 2 days. If you are typically regular then I would call your doctor and ask for a blood test...it aint over unti AF comes!
deleted_user
deleted_user
My periods have never been regular. I just had surgery done in September to open my tubes, drill holes in my ovaries and clean everything out. The doctor told me I should have normal periods without any complications and that if I did not ovulate in the first two months to come back but if I did I had three months to try on my own. I had a period 28 days ago and the terrible, terrible pain on day 9 which the doctors office said was ovulation. since then signs of pregnancy and nothing else. I have no signs of a period other than low constant back pain, but that could be from period or laying in bed to much from being sick. Who knows. Thanks for the encouragement, I want to stop thinking about it all the time, so I'm trying to do some work to get my mind off of it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I took my 1st preggo test on day 27, and it was negative, but on day 32 it was positive (4 or 5 times over). Give it a couple days and try again!
Diem
Diem
Everyone is different so perhaps wait a day or two and test again. CD 28 isn't too early for a bfp because that is when I got mine. However I never was more convinced I was going to get my period when I DID get my bfp. Prior to that there were MANY months where I thought that I was pregnant, I was SURE of it, and nope. I do wish you the best!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Test again in 2 days. If you are due then I hope it is good news.
Take it easy.
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