We're so not there yet but our IF is the male factor and with 3 BFN's from doing IVF with my DH's sperm, when I think of other options we may have to consider, the thought has crossed my mind. I guess I'm wondering if anyone has used or is using donor sperm to get pregnant. I'm finding it a huge hurdle to get over the fact that (biologically) I wouldn't be carrying my DH's child. It's not so much that I want to be pregnant as it is I want to be pregnant with his baby. Is that bad? At this point, and again we haven't even begun considering anything other than trying IVF again, I almost feel like we'd have more of a connection with a child we adopt (because we'd both not be the biological parents) than with a child that I am connected to biologically and my DH is not. I don't know, maybe I'm looking to much into it. I do believe in nurture over nature but at the same time I feel, I just don't know. Please tell me I'm not alone!
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