Sorry I mean BFP

I am in the same boat as you. All the tests on both of us have come back normal as can be and yet....2 years later still no baby. My OPK always shows positive on the same day of my cycle every month and we BD all around that time but still nothing. I will be interested to find out too if anybody else has any ideas on why this could be.

I know if there is a problem you can fix it but i think IVF is the last solution...

I feel we have done everything right. We eat only organic, do not smoke or drink. I work out and am in a normal weight range for my height and so is DH. I just do not understand at all. The Dr. is no help. If I hear "relax it'll happen" one more time I will scream. :)

YES that's right my friends and mom tell me just because i m thinking bout it my body is not responding ...i don't think so.There has to be a problem ..

YES that's right my friends and mom tell me just because i m thinking bout it my body is not responding ...i don't think so.There has to be a problem ..

im in the same boat 6 yrs 6 iui's,dh been checked everythings fine yet NEVER been pregnant.why is it sooo hard to get pregnant..

I will be anxious to see if any pregnant women had the same thing (unexplained infertility) and maybe they can give us some pointers. It may be as simple as bad timing.

mandy519-they told us in high school that it could happen the first time!! They lied. :)

Maybe it can be a fertilzatio prob?because that is not checked right?

This is probably going to sound really stupid...but maybe it will give you some comfort. My acupuncturist and I were talking about fertility today and she said to me, "some bodies just don't know how to be pregnant". She had a friend that tried for 12 years when an IVF cycle finally worked. Then, 5 months after she delivered a healthy baby, she got pregnant again! It was like her body said okay, now I get it! Now I know what you want me to do! I don't know how you would get your body to figure it out though :o).

i have unexplained infertility too. here is what i think: for my age (28) each month, under perfect conditions, and perfect timing you still only have about a 20% chance each month of conceiving. that percentage doesn't change just because i havne't gotten pregnant in 12 months. (well, actually it does down the older you get). but what i'm saying is, that each month, at best, i only have a 1 in 5 chance of getting pregnant. there are no gaurentees it will ever happen naturally. sigh. not fair...

I've also been wondering about this & what Ralxndr said makes total sense to me. I've met several people who had such a hard time ttc & finally got pregnant & then 2nd baby was no problem.....so now the question is how do we have our body to figure this out!?!?!

At this point my diagonosis is also "unexplained", and I just had a "perfect IUI" that didn't work. It's very frustrating because at least if there's something wrong they can work at fixing it. I hope this doesn't offend anyone - but my faith leads me to believe that only God can create a life. There's a point where science and medicine does all it can and the rest is out of our hands - there's a reason there's no such thing as a 100% guarantee of pregnancy with medical intervention. I'm trying to trust that when the time is right, it will happen. Miracles happen every day. Women who are told there is no way they will ever be pregnant, get pregnant and have normal healthy babies. Sometimes there is no rational explanation for what we see, we just need to keep believing and trusting.

This may sound simple but I was pregnant when I was 18 and had a healthy baby no problem. So when we decided to get pregnant (14 years after my daughter) I thought is was going to be no problem. I was wrong. It was around 7 months after we started to TTC that I started taking iron and drinking more water. We also perfected our timing. I got pregnant. I m/c at 6-7 weeks. Then I got pregnant again right away. I had a stillborn at 23 weeks. But doing those simple things helped me. Now I just need to keep a baby. Well Good Luck