i have 2 sister-in-laws. one has 3 children, and then found out a couple of weeks ago she found out she is pregnant w/her fourth. she has only been married for 6 yrs and none of her children are over 5 yrs old. then my other sister-in-law has a 7mo. old son and just found out that she is pregnant again. my dilemma is that i now don't want to go to my in-laws house for vacation this summer. a small part of me feels bad b/c my DH really wants to go see his family. but i just don't think i can go. i will be the only wife who isn't pregnant. my in-laws don't understand. i just don't know what to do. i told my DH to go w/o me, but he gave me the face... ya know the puppy dog face. should i just suck it up and get it over w/? i am going to have to face them all at christmas anyway. i don't know... i could really use some advice.
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