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maybe its me?

deleted_user
deleted_user
my husband just got his results back on his sperm, and everything with him is normal. so that means its me if there is a problem...hmm...its better though that its me and not him though, right? if there is something wrong, that is...why else havent we gotten pregnant ive been off everything for 8 months, and still no baby :(
deleted_user
deleted_user
There could be a ton of reasons why you aren't pregnant and since you haven't been tested, there may not be a problem at all. Sometimes it just takes a while. My recommendation is you tell your GYN that you'd like to start some preliminary tests & see what they show & if there is a problem, go to a fertility specialist for further testing. That is the only way you will know if there is an issue. Good luck!
suzyhopes
suzyhopes
Honestly, its a miracle that anyone gets pregnant at all with all the things that need to be coordinated just right with your body. They say that you need to give yourself 6-12 months after coming off birth control, but my sister-in law got pregnant the first month, so there's no telling. I recommend getting a workup by a fertility specialist, they really care about getting pregnant, not just seeing if there is a problem.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree with these ladies. Get a workup. And, don't stress yet. Even normal couples only have a 25% chance ttc every month.

Good Luck!
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