what job did you have? Maybe you could do something else.

I drive an ambulance it was my career.

I am sorry it is taking suck a toll on your life. No one (excepot us) really understand what we go through to have a child. Will you be okay with out working for now?

yes honey thank u so much my hubs works 2 jobs he is so dedicated and wonderful. He just wants me to be ok.

yes honey thank u so much my hubs works 2 jobs he is so dedicated and wonderful. He just wants me to be ok.

I am really sorry you are having a tough time. Take care.

I can relate... I left a job over what was really just a bunch of personality issues. I was at home for over a year, and during that year, we were still doing fertility treatments. I did finally go out and get a job, very part time. And you know what? I've found that the RIGHT job makes it so much easier to cope. I need the distraction. Maybe there is something - even a volunteer something - that you can do / get involved in that will help keep you occupied? Not that being busy makes you get pregnant, but it CAN make the wait a little easier... ANYway, just wanted to say I'm sorry it got to you so bad to be at your old job, and I'm glad you've got the option not to be there any more. And to suggest that you make a point of getting "out" at least a couple days a week. It'll keep you sane.

Oh Sweetie I'm so sorry. I've been lucky that many of my co-workers or their wives have gone through this so they are super supportive. They laugh at me when I snap as they know it's the medication and they hug me when I cry - I so hope you are ok

First of all, I'm really sorry. But secondly, you are obviously in a very stressful type of job. Now, let me be clear that I am NOT saying that you're just too stressed out to get pregnant (we've all heard 'just relax' enough times to make us all crazy) but I think that taking a break from such a stressful job will probably help in so many ways...since you have such a supportive DH and don't have to work, enjoy this time to focus on yourself, explore new interests, maybe volunteer. Good luck!!

honey it isn't just you. Dh works the station but as apart time job he is transport and he is so mean when he comes home! I really dont' like a few of them really and it is just a very stressful job on top of one that is already a pain!! Take a deep breath and enjoy some time with your little one and put things into perspective.

i was thinking of leaving too. unfortunately we need the $$. I would love to just take a leave of absence to get myself and thoughts together. It does make it tough when you are at work and not everyone knows what you are going through. I am lucky that I told my boss and she has been great, but it's still sooo hard some days.

I love you guys thank u for all the positive reinforcement.I know made the right decision. and I'm gonna drive the senoir citizens bus they need someone sown the street at a company