So DH and I are officially fed up with our family members and their way of "supporting us" through this crazy IF rollercoaster. My MIL called to see how I was feeling and I told her about how I was getting a little nervous and had gotten all of my medication and felt a little overwhelmed by all of the bottles and needles when I first opened the box. I don't like taking medicine without knowing exactly what it is used for and what the side effects will be so I did my research and was telling her about it. Well, she totally blew me off and made me seem like i was being ridiculous. She has no idea how tired, swollen, nauseas, and everything else I have felt while messing around with my hormones and there she is making me feel like I'm being stupid by looking into the side effects. She comletely changed the subject mid-conversation to tell me about her friends crazy daughter....uh, newsflash I DON"T CARE! UGH! Also, 2 weeks ago I had a doctor's appointment and my mom never called to ask me how it went, however, she did call a few days later to ask how my dog's doctor's appointment went. WHAT THE HELL?? Anyway, DH said he's fed up with both our mothers being rather insensitive (Dad's just ask how are things and stay out of it) and says that all we need is each other and to just keep it brief when they ask how I'm feeling. It just sucks because you know when the day comes that I do get pregnant and have a baby, suddenly they're going to really care and that just pisses me off. It almost makes me want to have a baby and then tell them to go F off...why weren't you more supportive and sympathetic while we were trying to make the baby? Sorry, I just had to rant.
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