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im giving up

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i just dont feel like it anymore. i dont feel like dealing with the depression, and the anxiety, and the false hope.

ill take my clomid, but im not checking ovulation or taking pt anymore...im done with it all.

whatever happens happens.
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Maybe a break is just what you need. I know how easy it is to get depressed & overwhelmed. Keep your chin up.
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I know how you feel. Im giving up too. Try to keep your chin up
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Maybe this is the right thing for you right now. Sometimes a break to regroup and relax so rejuvenating.

I so feel like giving up! I am in the middle of my IVF process and have already paid so I can't. I am so tired of being stressed out every day, week, and month.
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I know exactly how you feel. I'm starting my 2nd IUI at the end of December and instead of being excited (like I was the first time), I'm actually dreading it. I feel like I just can't get my hopes up again only to have them crushed. I don't know if I can handle another BFN. Hang in there - our day will be coming soon :-)
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I understand your frustration. It is overwhelming sometimes, a lot of the time actually. I will keep praying for you to get the BFP.
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I've been there, too. Allow yourself to embrace this part of the journey, too. I agree, you might just need a little break. Spoil *you* for awhile.

Also, I've heard countless stories of people who "give up" and then within a reasonably short time find out they are pregnant. Who knows!
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good luck and a break is good I'm taking a forced one because of a recent m/c. but each day it's alil more welcoming.
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Taking a break is pefectly natural. Sometimes you can only handle so much. We took a brak, too after the 4th of July when I go a BFN and it was he best ting we could've done...don't lose hope.
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I'm right there with you sweetie, I hope that this time away from the cycle gives you some rest and peace.
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I decided to take a December break also because I couldn't deal with the depression, anxiety and hope with Christmas coming also. I'm not even taking my clomid, just doing natural. I'll pray for you.
turtlegirl
turtlegirl
Sometimes it is okay to take a break. There is only so much that we can do and I pretty sure that obsesseing about it is not really helpful. Take care!
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Good luck sweety .
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Taking a break is probably just what you need right now. It can be very overwhelming and mentally draining.

You will be in my prayers.
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