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I can't take it anymore

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I was just watching the news and there is a story about a teenage girl who hid her pregnancy from everyone, including her parents! She gave birth to it in her bathroom and STABBED it 135 times. She STABBED HER BABY! Her mother said she thought she was having a heavy period! ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME! HOW COULD YOU NOT TELL YOU KID IS PREGNANT! I CAN"T STAND THIS ANYMORE. I AM SO SICK OF THESE SELFISH UNCARING FREAKS! I am sorry, but I am so upset! I actually started crying after I heard it! I feel so much hatred for these people. Does that make me a horrible person? I can't be forgiving to them. Is that bad?
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UGH it is infuriating! These ppl don't deserve to be alive themselves and they are blessed with babies that they kill or mistreat. There is a special place in hell for people like that.
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Where is God in all of this?
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Daizy,No this does not make you horrible. I feel so sorry for this girl. I mean if you can't trust to tell your parents or someone, have a baby and freak out like she did it is horrible. She needs HELP. But with trying to have a baby, people, my self included, look at things like this differently. I have seen mom's who were on drugs and took them to try and abort their babies have them at 23 weeks and act so loving towards them it is hard to stand. I have also seen the people with 12 kids, none of which she has custody of having # 13. I just don't get it sometimes. What realy hurts the most is the other nurses who say doing fertility and getting multiples is something horrible to do, usually related to some 23-24 week gestation triplets or quads. I understand that it is not a good situation, but I realy understand that I want children and if I get more than 1 I would be elated and scared to death at the same time. Babies born early are not good either. (soap box) sorry!
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No, I don't think that is bad. It's just that you understand the value of that little life more then she ever could. My heart breaks for that dear sweet baby. I think that I would have cried too if I had seen that on the news. (I tend NOT to watch the news because it is so negative)

The thing that I always wonder is... with all the options out there, why didn't she just walk into a police station or fire department or hospital or whatever and give the baby up??? Seriously??? She could have done it so easily... there must have been something REALLY wrong with her to do that to her own baby. It's hard to hear either way.
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That is absolutely sick. You have every right to feel such animosity towards people like that. It's so incredibly frustrating to understand why God blesses people with children who have no apprciateion of the gift that they are. I'm sorry you had to see that, I would of started crying as well.
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That is such a horrible story. FYI, there is an organization called Project Cuddle that works to target girls who may hide their pregnancies and help them. You can check it out at www.projectcuddle.org. I was thinking about volunteering for them.
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