You have to keep trying. Taking a month off helped us get our mind off of it. Just keep at it, it will work you have to believe that.

Don't give up there are so many success stories at DS. My DH and I have been trying for 5 yrs. now and just got let down again, this morning. I wanted to give up but then I think about how much I want that baby and I try to keep the strength and emotional aspects up and take it one day at a time. Good luck!

I know it can be frustrating at times but if you and your husband want children keep trying! My DH and I have also been trying for 2 years and I have had many ups and downs during our fertility treatment. But I know the reward will be worth all of this!

My best asvice is to try and take it month by month. I akready have children from a my 1st marriage and my Dh and I want a child that is ours. We have already done 1 IVF and we are doing our 2nd frozen enbryo cyle on the 19th. It never gets easier but Try to stay positve. My dh and I took Almost 9 months off after our MC and it helped sooooo much. We are all here for you!!!!

Hi and welcome to our group. I for one have had a hard time lately with my Faith. I am Catholic and lean towards a lot of Baptist beleifs. Until I realized that I had infertility. It seems very hard for me in that this past year I became way more involved in faith and prayer and being a loving wife and wanted to become pregnant.

It is mind blowing and really hard on the nerves, all of this. And so many people just do not understand what we go thru just to get the two line on a pregnancy test. Another thing is that clomid intensifies the feelings. At least for me. this is my 3rd time with it and I notice that the few days after my last pill I start hating my whole family and cant stand anyone except my husband. he lets me vent to him and cry to him. first round he was not supportive but i guess my tears of the first BFN on treatments his eyes opened a little.

Anyways, welcome and k/i/t.

Don't give up! I agree with some of the other ladies try to take it month by month, and if you need to take time off then do it. I think we all go through the ups and downs of this roller coaster. I wish that I could say something to make it easier but just know that we are all here if you need us.

Do not give up...I began to think that it would never happen and bam two months ago it did. It will work for you as well, please do not give up hope.

what we're all trying to say is that if we didn't give up after years of trying, you dont need to give up. your day will come but you have to fight for it.

If this is something you really want you have to keep trying. I have been through 4 ivf cycles and going on my 5th. The time before this time was really hard for me, but my DH said we have to keep going and hopefully next time it will work. I would take a month or 2 off and try to enjoy yourself and when you are ready try again.

thank you all for your advice and your kind words I feel much better today thank God and thanks to you of course