i am in a major quandrey - do i tell my family about my infertility issues or do i just pretend everything is fine? part of me really wants to tell them as i know that in some respects they would be supportive. but a bigger part of me doesnt want to for many reasons. 1: i dont want pity. 2: i dont want to be everyones conversation headline for the next few months until i a)get pregnant or b) cant. 3: i cant guarrantee that it will stay with my family - my mum has a habit of sharing stuff like this which would mean that more people would get to know than I want to. 4: i have a history with my mum of her turning everything back on me and telling me its my fault and i know at some point she would be tactless and do something like that. but at the same time life is very hard when you cant tell your family especially when you have a gorgeous 2 year old niece who everyone dotes on (me included) and talks about in every other sentance (me not included). do i really want them to feel bad about my little niece and stop talking about her as soon as i arrive? just do not know what to do!
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