Some of you may know my story and some of you don't. My DH was born with out his vas defern tubes so to get his swimmers he has to have them aspirated. He did that 3/2007. We got 3 vials to work with. We tried IVF# 1 5/2007 - did not get pg. We tried IVF# 2 9/2007 - got pg but miscarried at 5 weeks. We thought maybe the sperm quality was the issue so we went with getting donor sperm. We got 4 vials. We tried IUI# 1 2/2008 with clomid and got pg but again miscarried. Tried IUI# 2 4/2008with clomid did not get pg. Tried IUI# 3 5/2008with follistem did not get pg. Decided to use last vial of DH and donor and do IVF # 3. We got pg but again miscarried at 5 weeks. So now we don't have any vials left and our options are about the same as before and my DH has made it clear he is DONE. So i was wondering how many others are in my shoes and how you are dealing and coping. I'm at a loss for the fact i still want to try to have a child or adopt and he is simply DONE. How do you decided?????
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