Tonight my husband just sprank on me that we are going over to his parents house on easter for an hour and a half. The problem i have is last forth of july his mother came running to the door when we got there in tears to let us know that his sister was pregnant and due in jan(2007). First of all I have never goten along with my mother inlaw, second she had the hole stage set to anounse my sister in laws pregnancy in the same manner my sister in law had announced it. That july forth I could feel the tears comming on and the lump in my throat, however my husband had no concern for my feelings after 2 years of our inability to get pregnant. In fact he told me to just get over it!! It seems that he is more insensetive now than ever before, he planned for us to go over to his parent house where i will have to look at a mantal, a fridge and walls covered in his sister new baby ( she has two) My request was that he have his parents over to our house where i wouldn't have to have any visual reminders of how great his siters family life is vs. mine, which i apparently now carry a seven year curse. Sometimes I think that I sould just divorse him and find someone who has more compasion than he does. By the way is other option to me was that he could take are 3/1/2 year old son over to his parents house and leave me home! At which time he states his parents have the right to know about my fertility issues, i must say that is the only person i don't want to have that personal information about me.Oh theres a loving husband for you again only cares about his parents and him self.
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