OK so I am at work and one of the doctors I work for just had a baby. She brought her up here yesterday, and stayed for a really long time. I did not hold her as many of you can understand. Well, this morning I get to work relieved that the baby will not be here and one of my co workers said, "I hope she brings that baby back up her today." I followed up with, "Well, I think she needs to stay home with the baby and bond some more before she has to come back to work next week." She just got so offended by that, like it was her child. She also knows how hard of a time my husband and I are having. She follows up telling another co worker, "You will be next to get a baby; you're going to have a grand baby soon." I was sitting right here the whole time and she has been making baby comments all day to my face. It is like she gets pleasure out of seeing me hurt. I want to crawl under my desk and cry.
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