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Well, I made it through my surgery and returned about an hour and a half ago. Some good news some bad news. The good news is that my RE was able to remove a LOT of scar tissue that I had. This is from the ovary removal surgery when I was 5. She removed all of that and did not find any endo or fibroids. Now the bad news, she was unable to reconnect my right fallopian tube so IVF is the only way for us to concieve. I am not sure how I feel about IVF vs. Adoption and so DH and I are going to discuss our options and go from there. My post op appointment is next Friday so I am sure that the doc will talk to us more about it then.
Thanks for all your prayers and support. It really helped to make me feel better about the surgery. I am tired so i am going to take a nap, I just thought I would update everyone who was interested.
Jessica
Thanks for all your prayers and support. It really helped to make me feel better about the surgery. I am tired so i am going to take a nap, I just thought I would update everyone who was interested.
Jessica
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ohh my god honey I am so sorry I wish I had the magic words to make this all go away Im am here for you always
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I am glad for the good news and sorry for the bad. You are in my prayers what ever you and DH decide.
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I'm sorry for your bad news, and you sound like you are quite the trooper. I was so passed out after my lap that I'm impressed by your positive spirit of even being on here. I hope you and your DH feel excited about whatever decision.
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I am sorry. Whatever you and your DH decide will be great. I will be thinking about you.
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May god bless you and help you to chose the path that is right for you and hubby. You are in my prayers..
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Glad to hear the positive, sorry about the bad news though. I know it is hard to hear the only way of conceiving is IVF. I have NO tubes so IVF is my only option but I refuse to give up until I get my BFP. Just think of this surgery as a road to your bundle of joy.
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I just had a lap a couple weeks ago and had a similar experience. The doc said that there was no endo or anything & things looked good, but he found out that both my tubes are blocked. My husband and I are also talking about our options . . IVF or adoption. As for now, I'm very excited (and a little scared) to try IVF, but I know adoption will always be an option. I know I will be a mom someday. I know you will, too! Take time to rest up and do something that makes you happy :) Good luck to you! Keep us updated w/ what you decide to do.
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Oh Jess, I am so sorry, please know you are in my prayers...
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i just had a lap surgery as well. i have no tubes so ivf is my only option. dont give up it will be worth it when u have a little one.
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Glad to hear you are home and ok. Sorry for the bad news.
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