Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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deleted_user 04/30/2008

Well, I rarely take pregnancy tests because they always make me cry. Yesterday I decided it had been a while, so what the heck... yep, it was negative. Sigh, I sat down on the bathroom floor and cried for 20 minutes. I sit and ponder about how long it has been, 10 years, and still no baby in my arms. Gosh, I don't think it will ever happen for us.

Sorry to bring about the bad news ladies, but I need some cheering up today. Thanks for all your support.

-M

honeyb11277 04/30/2008

I am soo sorry :( I know exactly how you feel!

laraM 04/30/2008

Yuck. I am sorry. It totally and completely stinks. It will happen. Be good to yourself.

MrsMarsh 04/30/2008

I just started my 3rd year I can't imagine the heartache of 10... Stay strong!

Enjoy life for what you do have...

LoMac 04/30/2008

I'm sorry.

cryingwithu 04/30/2008

I'm sorry, I've been TTC for 10 years and I still don't have a baby. I used to take pregnancy tests pretty much every month before my IF problems were confirmed by RE. I cried all the time. I will be praying for you.

deleted_user 04/30/2008

I know how you feel my DH and I have been married for nine years and have taken many PG tests and got sad and angry so many times a I cant court hang in there your not alone

deleted_user 04/30/2008

It hurts so much doesn't it?! It really makes you wonder if there is a God out there. My RE said with enough money there can be a pregnancy. The clinic doesn't think so - they are worried about statistics. It is such a hard journey that the negatives really hurt. Keep your chin up and cry your eyes out!!!! Know you are not alone with this.

deleted_user 04/30/2008

im sorry, im yet another who knows how you feel, ive been tryng for 13 years, im on my 2ww at the mo and have done the test and the crying everyday this week,our time will eventually come but in the meantime let them tears out girl and thank god we have each other x

Lili 04/30/2008

I'm so sorry!!! I am right there with you on using the tests.....We've been trying for over 5 years, and I gave up on testing LONG ago!! And then a few months ago I slipped....and tried one....and cried for a while and was sad and depressed for days!!! This is such a painful journey. I'm just glad to know I'm not as alone as I used to feel!! Again, I'm so very sorry. I really hope you will get a BFP very soon, and the pain will decrease substantially! I'll be praying for you.

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