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Another One... :o(

deleted_user
deleted_user
Well, I rarely take pregnancy tests because they always make me cry. Yesterday I decided it had been a while, so what the heck... yep, it was negative. Sigh, I sat down on the bathroom floor and cried for 20 minutes. I sit and ponder about how long it has been, 10 years, and still no baby in my arms. Gosh, I don't think it will ever happen for us.

Sorry to bring about the bad news ladies, but I need some cheering up today. Thanks for all your support.

-M
honeyb11277
honeyb11277
I am soo sorry :( I know exactly how you feel!
laraM
laraM
Yuck. I am sorry. It totally and completely stinks. It will happen. Be good to yourself.
MrsMarsh
MrsMarsh
I just started my 3rd year I can't imagine the heartache of 10... Stay strong!

Enjoy life for what you do have...
LoMac
LoMac
I'm sorry.
cryingwithu
cryingwithu
I'm sorry, I've been TTC for 10 years and I still don't have a baby. I used to take pregnancy tests pretty much every month before my IF problems were confirmed by RE. I cried all the time. I will be praying for you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know how you feel my DH and I have been married for nine years and have taken many PG tests and got sad and angry so many times a I cant court hang in there your not alone
deleted_user
deleted_user
It hurts so much doesn't it?! It really makes you wonder if there is a God out there. My RE said with enough money there can be a pregnancy. The clinic doesn't think so - they are worried about statistics. It is such a hard journey that the negatives really hurt. Keep your chin up and cry your eyes out!!!! Know you are not alone with this.
deleted_user
deleted_user
im sorry, im yet another who knows how you feel, ive been tryng for 13 years, im on my 2ww at the mo and have done the test and the crying everyday this week,our time will eventually come but in the meantime let them tears out girl and thank god we have each other x
Lili
Lili
I'm so sorry!!! I am right there with you on using the tests.....We've been trying for over 5 years, and I gave up on testing LONG ago!! And then a few months ago I slipped....and tried one....and cried for a while and was sad and depressed for days!!! This is such a painful journey. I'm just glad to know I'm not as alone as I used to feel!! Again, I'm so very sorry. I really hope you will get a BFP very soon, and the pain will decrease substantially! I'll be praying for you.
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