sometimes it can yes if someone is hurting me I could get mad if they don't stop. Having these feeling are never wrong. It also depends on what they have said. It takes alot mostly to make most people angry by words.

The brain's reaction to anything that is upsetting, stressful, or hurtful is "fight or flight". As women, I think our "flight" is to cry and our "fight" is anger. I think our own personal reactions are based on the circumstances, the time of month, and where we are in our cycles (hormones).

Sounds right on topic to me! I cry whenever there is major emotion - sad, angry, happy... I think for me the anger boils down to being hurt that someone would do something to make me angry!

The whole experience - infertility- has left me feeling like I am in adolescence again. When the heart rules the head, when emotions dictate our decisions.

It is all new territory for me and my husband. We have never been in this situation before nor do it is something that you see happening in every day life that teaches you how to handle it. It is this big dark secret that lives inside of us just strangling our ability to cope and reason.

Geesum... I am such a ball of sunshine!

I think dealing with infertility, we are hurting so much of the time anyway that it is always close to the surface. It is just one small step from hurt to anger. I've been dealing with this for awhile now and I've found that my defense mechanisms have changed over the years. It isn't wrong, it's just the way we cope.

i cry when i am angry...so yeah i would say anger stems from hurt, fear, and pain.