My 17 yr old neice told me she was pregnant just before christmas. Unfortunately she is not getting much support from the family, just me at the mo but.... I think she is going to ask me to go to her first scan in 2 weeks time as no one else is willing to take time off work, and i am not sure how i will cope with it. I feel like i should support her and be there for her, but i also need to look after myself and my emotions. I feel like I am being selfish by putting my feelings before her needs and I dont know what to do.
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