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afraid to go for beta's

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Was wondering if anyone else has felt this way. This is my third IVF attempt and I had my transfer on the 24th. My RE wants me to go for my beta's next Tuesday, but I'm afraid to go. To the point where I actually don't want to go. I don't even want to test at home. I'm sooooooo nervous it will be another BFN that I just can't deal. Also, I have to work that day and they will call with the results while I'm at work and I can't leave my job if it's bad news so I'll have to get through the day again. Not fun.
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I am afraid too and I am still doing stims. Is there any way they can leave you a message you can check after work? I may do that if I am not already on vacation. I broke down at work the last time and the day was a waste.
But, you need to know one way or another. It would be great if we could just wait for AF to come or not come, but the meds can make it late.
I wish you the best!
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Hi, So sorry you feel that way, but I do understand!
You may want to do a HPT before going to your RE, good or bad news: you will be at least prepared! I really hope that it will be a positive for you!
Good luck!
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I was supposed to go yesterday, if that tells you anything, AND it's 2 pm here and I still have no desire to go today.
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I've always gotten AF even before beta so I have never been in your shoes but I would feel the same way. I agree with Lioness that you shoudl have them leave a message at home (although I am sure you will be going crazy all day to find out)and listen after work. I will be praying that you get your BFP next week!!
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