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Ok a few may think I am an evil b**ch but I have to ask a question of you ladies because I have come to really trust your thoughts and advice and I know it come from the heart!!
Let me give you a quick run down. DH and I had the wedding of our dreams, we went out on a 500ft ledge at the top of the Mongolian Rim and was married in an old Celtic Ceremony including the hand tying!! If no one has seen one done they are amazing. You actually are blessed married then blessed and hands tied and it brings a tear to your eyes. Anyway we only invited the people who are very close in our life and have been so that included my husbands best friend since Junior High and they are Fire Fighters together and his wife then We are very good friends with the Deadhot Workshop so we invited the lead singer and his brother who plays and his fiance who took all our pictures. We sent out a invitation for a reception to be held at our house the following month. Well we got to our reception day and this couple showed up with their 2 daughters. They turned their girls loose in our home and they kicked my dog, tore my house up, mouthed off to my Dh, almost put a pool stick through our table and wall and then they spilled food all over our brand carpet and slid down our stairs and put marks on our brand new walls. When I went to go look for them they were both outside smoking and drinking and not paying attention to their brats. Well they decide to get married now and they put out an invitation close to how ours read and then told people that they all want us to go on a cruise with them. Um ok they gave us less than 2 months notice so money doesn't come out our asses so no we are not going. This morning I get a email from one of her friends inviting people to a resturant on Thursday for their reception, UM AGAIN it is Tuesday WTF. My question is this, I know it sounds evil, I don't want to drive 30 minutes up the road to a crapy mexican resturant to watch people get drunk. We told everyone to not bring gifts because we didn't want any we just wanted people to have dinner a few drinks and be happy with us. Well I do believe these guys are asking for presents to be brought. I feel this is in poor taste and just down right rude. We only hear from these people for their wedding info and now a party so my deal is HELL NO I don't want to go!! I am to RSVP by Wed because the party is the next day!!
Is this in poor taste not going since my Dh worked with this guy for years at another station or am I right since they disrespected us on many levels!!
I know this isn't a infertility issue but really I need some help on this one!! I appreciate it
Let me give you a quick run down. DH and I had the wedding of our dreams, we went out on a 500ft ledge at the top of the Mongolian Rim and was married in an old Celtic Ceremony including the hand tying!! If no one has seen one done they are amazing. You actually are blessed married then blessed and hands tied and it brings a tear to your eyes. Anyway we only invited the people who are very close in our life and have been so that included my husbands best friend since Junior High and they are Fire Fighters together and his wife then We are very good friends with the Deadhot Workshop so we invited the lead singer and his brother who plays and his fiance who took all our pictures. We sent out a invitation for a reception to be held at our house the following month. Well we got to our reception day and this couple showed up with their 2 daughters. They turned their girls loose in our home and they kicked my dog, tore my house up, mouthed off to my Dh, almost put a pool stick through our table and wall and then they spilled food all over our brand carpet and slid down our stairs and put marks on our brand new walls. When I went to go look for them they were both outside smoking and drinking and not paying attention to their brats. Well they decide to get married now and they put out an invitation close to how ours read and then told people that they all want us to go on a cruise with them. Um ok they gave us less than 2 months notice so money doesn't come out our asses so no we are not going. This morning I get a email from one of her friends inviting people to a resturant on Thursday for their reception, UM AGAIN it is Tuesday WTF. My question is this, I know it sounds evil, I don't want to drive 30 minutes up the road to a crapy mexican resturant to watch people get drunk. We told everyone to not bring gifts because we didn't want any we just wanted people to have dinner a few drinks and be happy with us. Well I do believe these guys are asking for presents to be brought. I feel this is in poor taste and just down right rude. We only hear from these people for their wedding info and now a party so my deal is HELL NO I don't want to go!! I am to RSVP by Wed because the party is the next day!!
Is this in poor taste not going since my Dh worked with this guy for years at another station or am I right since they disrespected us on many levels!!
I know this isn't a infertility issue but really I need some help on this one!! I appreciate it
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Thanks, it just makes me angry when people can act like that I guess.
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There is so much more to the story also but that is all by gones so it is the crap that happened on our reception that has me angry.
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I wouldnt go ,, but if I did I would "rent" the bratest child in the neighborhood and load him up on sugar and watch the fireworks. lol
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OK TRUTHFULLY GIRL. I WOULDNT GO AND I WOULDNT THINK ANOTHER THING ABOUT IT . YOU WOULD GO AND NOT HAVE FUN ANYWAY . WHY SHOULD YOU DO THAT TO PLEASE SOMEONE WHO OBVIOUSLY DIDNT CARE TO PLEASE YOU FOR THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. IN FACT ALMOST RUINED IT IN THE END. IF YOU FEEL YOU HAVE TO GIVE A REPLY JUST EMAIL BACK SAYING THANKS FOR THE INVITE BUT BECAUSE OF ENGAGEMENTS ALREADY MADE YOU CANNOT ATTEND AND YOU WISH THEM THE BEST. AND IF THEY ASK YOU FOR A GIFT TELL THEM TO SCREW THEMSELVES SIDEWAYS. HAHA JUST KIDDING ON THAT PART. JUST DONT EVEN BOTHER WITH THEM . YOU OWE THEM NOTHING GIRL.
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Thanks ladies...I know I got stuck watching those to hellish children at the hockey game and let me tell you he had them tanked on cotton candy and soda to send back to their mom and i thought i would kill them...DH just keeps telling me that is what god made the butt for and ours won't act like that
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