
Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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Ok, so it looks like we are going to have our second IUI on Saturday. BUT....if this doesn't work we need to decide what to do. My RE feels since my DH's SC is right on the line of what he feels will lead to a successful IUI that IVF/ICSI is our best option. But here is where I run into a problem. I have no moral problems with IVF so it is not that but for some reason I can't seem to get on board with the IVF. I feel like it is more intervention than I want. I really feel like the IUI's are bad enough. I guess that since I never imagined that we would have these difficulties I am having a harder time imagining going through this. I guess I want to know if anyone else any second thoughts on IVF and if so why and what you did to get over them. I feel like I should be ready to do whatever it takes but something in me is not quite there yet.
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The hard part for me is knowing the eggs are fertilized and then don't make it. But, I guess that would happen on it's own too.
I really want a child and to be a Mother. I want to raise someone and help them grow into a beautiful, strong, loving and careing adult and continue the chain. That is why I go through with the IVF.
Even though we have been trying for 3 years the unsuccessful IUI was more dissapointing than I imagined.
So I started reading more about IVF and am thinking about going for it but still have doubts.
Then I think am I a terrible person b/c I won't do whatever it takes to have a baby???
I also worry that if I don't try this I will always wonder....would it have worked.
Sorry I don't have any words of wisdom for you but feel your pain.
I am new to this forum but have gone thru 2 iui's with clomid and 2 iui's with injectibles.The last 2 iui's my preg hormone detected was on the border line so I don't know if it was the medication which showed that false pregnancy as I got my period. I am thinking about IVF and have the same feeling.Why do I have to go thru all this when I know so many people who concieved naturally .Guess God has selected me to go thru all this .Has anyone tried Ivf .I am too scaid about the egg retrieval process ,Is it painful .Pls share your thoughts.