I'm sorry for what you are going through,I have a question why did they tell you it was ompossible to have a second baby? just wondering,but I hope they are wrong.

I too suffer from secondary infertility. I have 2 children, but ever since they messed with my thyroid, I haven't been able to conceive again. Not sure why. Everything is unexplained. We've tried different things and so far no luck, but we keep on trying and we pray alot. It can be very frustrating. We are going on our 8th year of trying, I hope you have better results. Hang in there!

My husband and I have 'unexplained infertility' which, while obviously different from your case, was also very frustrating as there was nothing specific to fix! And then after having our first baby (IVF), we were told by lots of people 'just relax, now it's happened once it will happen naturally and easily again'. Well, three more rounds of IVF as well as acupuncture and chinese herbs...we are finally pregnant with our second and just ecstatic. I hate that it is so hard for you, but the good news is that there are so many options (all different levels of invasiveness and cost of course) that can help you along if you need it. So I am sure it will happen...LOL!

This whole this is so frustrating for so many of us going through infertility. This is a great site to get answers from real people. Have you gone to an RE?(reproductive endocrinologist). I Think you should exhaust all your resources before you through your hands up. Why did they tell you that "its not possible"? There is always HOPE don't give up.

I meant to say that they said it is not impossible to have another baby, but on the other hand we do not want to do ivf as it is too expensive, so we are trying some natural ways to have a baby like I am taking concieve well gold by blackmores and dh is taking zinc so we just have to see how that works out for us. We only have 2 years left to have a baby because we said that when I turn 40 and dh turns 50 we will stop as there is a ten year age difference between us. Just hoping it will happen for us all soon

Hi there. I am new to this community. I just want to say don't give up. And when you least expect it, it will happen. We had been trying for almost 6 yrs, after giving up. Got rid of all DD baby things. Then May this year I fell PG, unfortunately I miscarried in Sep at 21wks. But I have not given up. Like you we also said we would try until I was 40, just under 2 yrs left. And what will be will be. The more you worry about falling PG it just doesn't seem to happen. SO I do wish you good luck and hope something good happens soon for you.