I have a 14 y/o and I have been ttc for the last 6 years with my current husband he has previous children. I am feeling bad today because I just told a family member we are ttc and i am having a lap this friday the 15th and the reaction floored me. I heard things like why start over. Your child is already grown.. that could be his baby. Its hard enough to be going thru secondary infertility expecially after all these years of trying but now i wonder are the comments right? I always wanted 10 plus children and because i had my first so young at 16 i needed to wait. And i am married to a wonderful man and have not been able to have kids togeather. it is so frustrating. I am so glad i found this site last week you are all so supportive. THANKS!!!!
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