Infertility, Secondary Support Group

"Secondary infertility" is difficulty conceiving after already having conceived and carried a normal pregnancy. Apart from various medical conditions (e.g. hormonal), this may come as a result of age and stress felt to provide a sibling for their first child.

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We have been asked by a local teen to adopt her unborn baby. I am so scared. What if she changes her mind. what if the bio dad won't sign the papers. We have been trying so long. my other kids are in midddle schol and high school. My own son is almost oldenough to be the dad. If he were I would never allow him to let that baby be adopted by someone else. I would adopt it.

Anyway, I am really proud of her maturty in not aborting the baby. I am proud of her for wanting to finish school, go to college get a job find a husband and start her own family.

I am proud of her for wanting to give the baby to someone who wants one so much. Sheis giving us a gift so wonderful. Please everyone send your hearts and prayers direction, that all goes as planned.

Any other obsticles I schould watch out for? I really want to be prepared for this to fall apart. I just want it so much it feels like a dream
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I don't think you can prepare yourself if the adoption falls apart, it is a risk. I think you should go for it and see what could happen. What do you have to loose?
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absolutely nothing. I think the girls already are having second thoughts. Why do I say girls. 4 of them got together and voted. I don't know if it is falling apart or the ring leader is just having boyfriend problems. I tried to get her to talk to me about talking to the girls family and she said oh we will make a decision in a few weeks. I have no idea how to tell my dad. I think I should give the pregnat girls mom a call and ask her what is going on. right now I have visions of 4 girls ages 15-16 planning to live together and raise this child on their own. This has disaster written all over it. Could they just be upset that I would not agree to the name Kurt Clinton. my republican husband who is so happy when I called him, has called 5 times today. he is on travel and talked for hours. Unheard of. Will never agree to the name clinton. We already had names picked out too. family names. Not something to break the dealofver. the child can have several middle names and you use one of those.

I am praying and thinking good thoughts.

thanks for your advice.
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Woohoo! Great! Go for it. I think with all the ups and downs of infertility, this is a chance that you should take as well. We are talking about adopting if we give it two more years and no luck for baby#2, then we will do it as well, so I say you should show your interest and hope for the best!
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