
Infertility, Secondary Support Group
"Secondary infertility" is difficulty conceiving after already having conceived and carried a normal pregnancy. Apart from various medical conditions (e.g. hormonal), this may come as a result of age and stress felt to provide a sibling for their first child.

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OK SO THIS WEEKEND I HAD A FAMILY MEMBER ASK ME WHEN I WAS GONNA HAVE ANOTHER BABY. SHE ALSO TOLD ME THAT I WAS GETTING OLDER AND THAT BY THE TIME I HAD ANOTHER CHILD MY DAUGHTER WOULD BE TOO OLD AND WOULD NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH ANOTHER BABY.I TOOK THIS VERY HARD CONSIDERING I AM ONLY 28 YEARS OLD AND ALSO FOR THE FACT THAT EVERYDAY MY DAUGHTER ASK ME WHEN SHE IS GONNA GET A BROTHER OR SISTER. I JUST WISH THAT SHE COULD WALK A DAY IN MY SHOES TO SEE AND FEEL THE PAIN THAT I GO THROUGH SEEING SOMEONE WHO IS PREGNANT OR HAVING TO EXPLAIN TO MY DAUGHTER THAT SHE MAY NEVER HAVE A SIBLING.I WANT HER TO KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO WANT SOMETHING SO BAD AND NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE IT BUT THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN CONSIDERING SHE IS ON HER 4TH PREGNANCY,MUST BE NICE HUH? HOW DO I TALK TO HER WITHOUT GETTING PISSED OFF ABOUT THE COMMENTS THAT WERE MADE? ANY SUGGESTIONS WOULD BE VERY HELPFUL.
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Maybe you shoul sit with this person and try to be as calm as possible and tell her that not everyone gets pregnant when they want some of us have to seek help.
Good Luck! Sorry that I was not more helpful.