My husband and I have been trying for almost a year to get pregnant with our second. They found that one of my tubes were blocked so they opened it last week and now the infertility dr's are telling us that my husbands sperm is not the best. I have shared alot of this, except the part about my husband with my family and 2 close friends. I am just starting to feel that no one cares and no one wants to give support. My friends are all busy with their kids, because they never had issues getting pregnant and my family are just oblivious. My mother barely asks about what is going on and my mother in-law has no clue. She actually stated to me today, while know that they opened your tube the next part should be fun. Like we haven't been trying for the past year and that this whole thing has been my fault. I am frustrated that my dh won't express his feelings or talk to his family about what is going on. Even though his mother knows we are seeing a specialist she never asks and he never gives any information. Does anyone else have a situation like this they are dealing with? I know I am supposed to be happy to have my son, but a little support once in a while would be nice. Thanks for listening.
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