My adult daughter was abused up untll the age of 4 by her father. He was imprisoned, we divorced & later she had supervised contact with him. She is very angry at me for everything wrong in her life. Blames me for everything. Said she wish she grew up with her dad. She was in counseling for years. She also now says he was innocent & I set him up. Recently I just had it with stories of physical abuse my grandchildren have been telling me for almost a year now at the hand of their father. The oldest grandaughter has sexually been acting out for that amount of time as well. I reported a child molester & the manipulative monster has my young adult childrens' minds so twisted it's unbearable. My son now has legal trouble, is an alcholic, unemployed. My daughter had 4 daughters by her high school stalker by her 22nd birthday. I hoped that talking with my grandaughters school about my concerns would help. Now she hates me more & trash talking, lying about me all over the community. Is it that bad that she just is in some fantasy world & I am a reminder of the truth of her past? I was abused too & didnt want to deal w/it until my daughter was abused. I realized then I needed help & didnt want to remarry another child molester. I always loved her & did anything for her. I feel she has a personality disorder. She disassociates, has angry fits, has to write down lists to keep control of every minute of her day. I always loved her but now I am afraid of her & dont trust her. It's like I broke the cycle of abuse & both my children are abusers anyways. Its so heartbreaking, lonely & unfair how I'm being treated. BTW her in laws are very sick & incest is in their backgrounds too...I don't know whose abused my oldest grandaughter...but I have strong feelings someone has & she will never tell. I only found out by accident about my daughter.
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