I just had a troubling experience and I don't know what to do or how to react... First I am a lesbian (which comes into play in the issue that I am having) and I am happy in my relationship with my wife. Often my very religious family has meetings with me about my life choices and consequences, so when my dad called a meeting, I figured it was more of the same. The meeting was a far cry from what i expected and, basically, he told me that I had been his main sexual interest since I was about 14 years-old. That was 10 years ago and since then I have been with a couple different women that he confessed an attraction to them, specifically my wife, at this meeting. All of this was bad enough, but then, he begged me, BEGGED ME to sleep with him. I smiled and mumbled something that I could not even recognize. I maintained my cool long enough to get to the car where I proceeded to breakdown on the phone with my wife. He made me promise to have more "meetings" with him :(. With the holidays coming up and a time for family and unity, how can I look at him and not let on to the entire family that something is wrong? I love him, he's my dad and I don't want to hurt him, I just don't know what to do...
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