This is a re post of my previous post since it was unclear the first time, my partner and i been together 4 years and11 months, for the past 3 years we been and and off having big arguments, it was it a terrible state in the last 3 years, i didn't knew much about healthy boundaries and have trust issues, me being a sexual abuse survivor, was searching for a counselor to help me but we don't have one qualified in our country that specifically deals with sexual abuse survivors, so i started to do my own research and did some and still doing self therapy work, i download so many stuff about self growth, self esteem, self acceptance, and bought books like the allies in healing, sexually healing journey etc, and have audio's from john gray, i have been working my butt off to improve myself individually, but not sure if my partner working on his own issues, individually we are doing okay well i know i am, but when it comes to the relationship, its not balance, we do have time being with each other but we don't do anything romantic during that that time, he is not someone who likes to go out he so he rarely take me anywhere, he rather us staying at home and do house chores, which is a psychical intimacy he doesn't like having fun, he is serious, and so i always get to do what he see as fun, but he never do what i see as fun, also i told him i wanted to be taken care of romantically and he is not giving me what i need. Emotionally i would want to actually have fun with him, i have fun with my friends but its a different feeling being with the person you love and i want to feel that with him, and since he is not giving me what i ask , i feel like looking for it elsewhere, :( i wouldn't want to look else where, but I'm feeling emotionally distant from him, i feel more of a friend towards him than my lover.
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