My wife is a survivor and a saint! Recently all the events have come out to the entire family and the amalgam of reactions is mind boggling to me. I AM SO FUCKING ANGRY AT EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING I HAVE BEEN SHAKING FOR OVER 3 WEEKS ON AND OFF. My anger is keeping up at nights that I now have to take pills to sleep. we all sat in family therapy last night and talked about forgiveness and how we shouldn't shun her father no matter what he did. So what if he wants to get help, how is that going to change anything????? The therapist says it's ok if we never trust him again but we should understand. WTF???? Then he writes my wife some stupid email morning essentially blaming her for ripping the family apart!!! HOW THE HELL IS ANY OF THIS HER FAULT??????????????? I AM SO ANGRY RIGHT NOW, AND I HAVE BEEN FOR SO LONG, CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME, I FEEL SO ALONE :(
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