
Incest Survivors Community Group
This group was created before there was an actual support group on this site for incest survivors. Most people are already comfortable here, feel free to add your thoughts, questions, and opinions. I'm here for anyone that needs me. -metalheadlxlxl

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Hey, everyone. I haven't been active here in a long time... Well, my father passed away about a year ago, and after all that he did to me...I miss him terribly. Is that wrong? I mean, am I supposed to be happy that he's gone. I mean, I get it. He hurt me, but... Our relationship was consensual most of the time, and this whole thing is so confusing because now I don't know what to feel. I feel sick and disgusted with myself. I feel scared of myself and what I think. Am I alone in this? Is there anyone there with a similar experience?
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even if what happened was consenual, a father should know better than to have that kind of relationship with his daughter.
you're not sick or disgusting for missing him. thats what can get so tricky about incest, we cant always feel free to hate our abusers, because they're our family, and society tells us to love them. and because they're our blood, part of us probably always will.
this was a hard thing to admit to yourself and to us, you should be proud of yourself for opening up and dealing with how you feel.
Karen
hang in there honey, your not alone. we are here for you. big hug!
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