So those of you who know me, know that recovery is my focus. Tonight my neice called. And I counselored her about her problems. I love her. To make a long story short, when my brother(abusor) and sister in law, called it quits, my sister in law would not let our side of the family see the girls. I waited until they were 18, and adults, and contacted them. They have let me back in their lives, and I am very blessed to have them in my life. Tonight, after I got off the phone and sat here on DS, I thought, wow is this relationship really counterproductive? I love them, but they are from the devils seed. I guess I am the only one that can really determine whether it is healthy or not, but I was just wondering if anyone else has this problem. Or can anyone tell me what they think? Thank you in advance!!
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