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Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardless of the capability of ejaculation. There are various underlying causes, such as diabetes, many of which are medically reversible. The causes may be physiological or psychological.
not understanding erection problems at all!

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ive been with my boyfreind a while now and everythings been great, we recently moved in together and ive been really happy with him. our sex lifes always been really good, the best! untill recently. a few weeks ago he couldnt get an erection, i couldnt understand it because i usaully really turn him on and i dont consider myself unattractive. i got really defensive about him not getting an erection, had a few words to him and felt so shitty about not being able to turn my man on but i put it down to a one off. then it just kept happening all the time, but 90% of the time it will happen during intercourse or when im pleasuring him and i just dnt understand why! i ask him and he says he doesnt know why, he says he just thinks about his erection the whole time and then he just loses it! what does that say about me? this past few weeks ive began to feel so sexually unattractive, at the end of the day i feel like i cant satify my man, that what i do isnt nice enough or good enough for him. i just keep thinking if i was that attractive and sexy like he says he would be able to keep it up surely. i prob sound selfish but im getting so fed up. i cant understand why he can get an erection and then he loses it when hes inside me or something, what does that say about me.
it happened last night and just before it happened i looked at my stomach and thought it looked wobbly and gross and then 30 secs later he lost his erection so that just made me upset thinking he thought the same about my wobbly bits.
i know it must be horrible for him but he cant care that much because ive told him to go see a doctor and have a chat but he hasnt, maybe hes embarressed but surely he can overcome that for the sake of our relationship because this is driving a wedge between us and i cant feel like this for the rest of my life no matter how much i love him. i feel undesired, un sexy and bloody fat and ugly. i just dont understand how everythings just changed and its driving me insane.
im sorry if i do sound selfish im just telling from a womans point of view how its making me feel. i wanna help him but he would rather not listen and continue to push me out so i dont know what to do. im so angry all the time
it happened last night and just before it happened i looked at my stomach and thought it looked wobbly and gross and then 30 secs later he lost his erection so that just made me upset thinking he thought the same about my wobbly bits.
i know it must be horrible for him but he cant care that much because ive told him to go see a doctor and have a chat but he hasnt, maybe hes embarressed but surely he can overcome that for the sake of our relationship because this is driving a wedge between us and i cant feel like this for the rest of my life no matter how much i love him. i feel undesired, un sexy and bloody fat and ugly. i just dont understand how everythings just changed and its driving me insane.
im sorry if i do sound selfish im just telling from a womans point of view how its making me feel. i wanna help him but he would rather not listen and continue to push me out so i dont know what to do. im so angry all the time
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I sometimes find it ironic, how many women just assume that a man can get, and keep, an irrection at will.
Granted, I'm sure there are men in the world who have that gift, but I don't think the majority of men are like that at all.
I think men aren't that much different then women. sometimes there in the mood to make love, sometimes their not. Sometimes their mind is cluttered of other thoughts to be in the mood at that particular time. It doesn't mean their partiner isn't attractive, it just means there not in the mood, or what it could be, is the same position or style over and over, and possibly trying different things may help to spark a mood.
I don't know, but I do know, its a personal thing, just like it is with women. A lack of an irrection, in this case I think, just simply means, the mood is gone at that particular moment, thats all :) so just let nature take its course and don't worry about it so much :)
So just ask him to consult a specialist, get to the root of the cause and have the medication prescribed and surely he can get over his problem. Best Luck.
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I agree with bobinmaine. I thought communication was the key so I started speaking about what I felt about the whole thing. MY IDEA OF COMMUNICATION was shooting daggers at his ego. I would speak out of emotion and became sarcastic at times, even mean. His problem wasn't medical( I knew why he was having problems). HE began to make excuses to get not to have sex(too tired, etc...)It was nonexistent. The best part of being married was the sex and I became celibate.
I changed. when he would lose it during sex I wouldn't get upset or ask many why questions. He began to down himself I have to stop it, because mental is very important when keeping an erection. I would tell him to keep going it will come back and it usually does. He has told me over and over it isn't me, it just wont work and I decided to believe him. Things have improved.
Change the way you react to it. Think it but don't say it when you can. And if it continues he needs to see a doc.