Hi I'm 39 (next week) married 19 years at the end of September and my partner (he's 47) and I have suffered from ED for 12 years. I say the two of us have suffered as I have given everything I've got to trying to maintain a sex life. We've tried Viagra and just about everything else but nothing works. I now go to bed much later just so he'll be asleep when I do go. Don't get me wrong but it's gotten to the stage where I don't want to try as I don't like the battery operated alternatives, I end up more sexually frustrated than when we started. I love my husband and maybe it's because it's close to my birthday and anniversary that I'm thinking of this. I seem to be saying to myself every birthday that I'll give it another year and see how things go, but yet again, another birthday is rolling around and I can't believe that it is now 12 years that I'm "giving it another year". I think at this stage I either stay with my husband and accept that I'm never going to have full intercourse again, or we call it a day. I just don't know what to do. Any thoughts are very welcome.
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