my husband does not understand what I have gone through and continue to go through - it seems like he 'avoids' spending time with me because i don't feel good and he does not want to deal with it. he is doing a 'so-so' job at taking care of the kids - a not so good job with the house and spending NO time with me. It makes me angry and I cry alot - I am only 4 days post op from my TAH and BSO - I am in pain yet very numb in parts which is disturbing to me. I can be downstairs for hours and he will not 'check' on me - I am very distraught and will contact my doctor but need others advice how to handle this - I feel so fat and ugly right now - i do not know what to do.
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