HPV Support Group
Human papillomavirus is a diverse group of DNA-based viruses that infect the skin and mucous membranes of humans. More than 100 different human papillomavirus (HPV) types have been characterized. Some HPV types cause benign skin warts, or papillomas, for which the virus family is named. HPVs associated with the development of such "common warts" are transmitted...
I went in for my first Pap and got abnormal results. My family thought it was going to be false because the don't know that I have been sexually active. I have contacted everyone I have been with in any sexual way and none of them seem to think they have it. My mom will probably freak out because me even saying HPV to her made her panic because I am her "baby" and she doesn't know anything about my relationships. How do I make them (my family) understand that I was stupid and have been changing my ways but it obviously is too late because I already got something.
Also, I just started dating this guy - we are crazy about each other - and he knew about this before we were dating (that my results were abnormal) and now knows that it might be HPV. What do I say to him? How do I carry on this relationship if I think he doesn't even want to be near me?
Also, I just started dating this guy - we are crazy about each other - and he knew about this before we were dating (that my results were abnormal) and now knows that it might be HPV. What do I say to him? How do I carry on this relationship if I think he doesn't even want to be near me?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
The best thing you can do to ease your parents' minds is to educate them about the virus. Give them statistics. Give them information on what HPV is, how common it is, and how it is spread. Your parents love you and are probably mostly concerned about your well-being. Educating them can only help ease their minds. And remember, you're 21 years old. You're old enough to make decisions about your sex life. If you're unhappy with the way you've been leading your life use HPV as a means/excuse to change and reform. But in my experience, lamenting and dwelling on mistakes made in the past only makes you feel guilty and serves only to stunt your recovery and healing.
As for your boyfriend, he already knows about the HPV, right? And it sounds like has already decided to continue the relationship? That's really wonderful! And it's also a sign that he DOES want to carry on your relationship. It sounds like he's in it for you and is willing to overcome some tricky obstacles to be with you. I was terrified about telling my ex-boyfriend (we were still together when I got my test results), but he was great. He was supportive and really just concerned about my health (and didn't seem concerned at all that he probably had it, too). The best thing I did for us was keep him in the loop. He went to my colposcopies with me and knew about my test results and read all the information I gave him about HPV. Do the same with your new guy.
Just know that you're not alone. You've got a network of people here to rely on on for support, no matter what happens. We're all going through the same things. While I hate the reason we're brought together, it's refreshing and inspiring that there is support. HUGS!