When I found out I had high risk HPV my doctor told me i didnt need to tell the guy I was with because it made no difference. He wouldnt be hurt by it physically. Yes he could pass it on but she said that thats his choice to be having safe sex with that other women as well as that other womens choice to do the same. That it wasnt my responsibilty to take care of anyone but myself. She said that by telling him it would only cause him panic since there is no test for it for men. Well I took her advice and when a friend took it upon herself because she "felt" he needed to know he broke up with me on the spot. I realize now that i should have told him because hes completely shut me out of his life and wants nothing to do with me...hes not willing to work it out with me at all. please tell me that if he really cared about me that even though I lied and told him I had never had anything that he would still try and work through it with me. Has anyone elses doctor told them this before? Was it wrong to listen to her advise? Im seriously flipped out and as ou can see iv already joined the depression group!
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