I have been on here reading lots about the experiences everyone is sharing for a while, i have shared some. I love Daily Strength, last year when the leaders hooked us up with email buddies, i took mine very seriously and we are in contact daily. Via facebook, text messages. Its been great, we are about the same age (48). I was widowed at 45. I talk also with one other widowed woman around 45 who has been widowed over a year. For me, over 2 years. Anyway. I notice very much back and forth feelings whenever they/we discuss dating. Maybe even if its the same man they have been in a relationship with for months, some odd questions come up like "is this really love" it almost seems like sometimes we want to rush into another "serious" relationship because we have been married. I have to admit I am actually dating a man for now about 4 months, dating, several times a week, its been fun. I do not feel the need to push to further than the wonderful wonderful feeling i have. I just think its plain different and learning that life/dating, anything we are doing now is so plain different. We cannot push it, make it what we want, look further into it is hard to do when we have experienced death, we are overly cautious or overly anxious. or is it me?
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