My husband has been HIV positive for 7 years. We found out when I was at the end of my pregnancy in 2001. It was very tough to go it alone, not family around us and we wanted to keep it secret. I have gone thru many emotions thruout the years and still feel very alone, altho I am a very strong woman. We almost divorced in February of this year (my decision). There were other reasons, but I am sure that the HIV had something to do with it. I just cannot help but feel a great deal of fear, everytime we have sex. We use protection and he tries to reassure me that he is taking every precaution. I think if I talked to some other people in the same situation, I would feel better. Want to know if there are safer ways to have sex and still have fun. Maybe if I could find a support group, we people in the same situation, I don't know. If anyone has any advice, I would appreciate it. Thanx!
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