happy thanksgiving. dont let any anxiety bother your thanksgiving.

the information about the contagiousness of hiv by sexual transmission, when you get into the deeper nitty gritty of the research findings, is that hiv is alot more difficult to transmit than previously thought. after the holiday, (im just checkin in to say hi and see if there are any emergencies today) ...after the holiday i can send you all sorts of links and stories, research data, etc, to allay your fears.

in fact, there is an increasing body of hiv specialist researchers, doctors, and even some of the famous original hiv superstar research doctors who are now beginning to question wether hiv is transmissible by sexual contact at all. yeah, you read that rite, there is an increasing number of hiv specialist medical and research team members, many of them extremely wel lknown, who are now beginning to think hiv is NOT sexually transmitted at all, (their idea is that our immune problems come from inside our own bodies, simply run down immune systems from all SORTS of things, from vaccines, innoculations, diet, environment, stress, psycho immune isues, (which is why its important for y ou and hubby to relax until you have the information you need to DECIDE and CHOOSE how much to panic)...

panic is what a man does, until he becomes informed....

if its any consolation, i had a partner arround 2002, and we did the unprotected sex thing everyday for 3 years. now, four yrs after oour split, he continues to test negative!

gee i wish i had the exact link to give it to you now, if i cna find it, i will post another message here for y ou...


-Taoe

specifically from that website in the very previous message i took this clip:

One of the reasons that there is no apology or admission of guilt by the radicals is because they continue to dominate the media culture, which is why the lies continue, along with the needless deaths. As Fumento points out in his article, The African Heterosexual AIDS Myth, the official line that AIDS in Africa is being spread heterosexually can simply not be questioned, even though the empirical evidence suggests that it is simply false. Yet because the truth cannot be spoken on this issue, since it poses such a direct threat to the radical agenda, real preventive measures are not pursued and millions of lives are put at stake.

ta DAH!

Thank you for taking time out of your thanksgiving to help. I feel a bit better still worried but will keep a eye out for all the info I can get. HAVE A GREAT THANKSGIVING.

go to discussions, read: HIV HISTORY 101...

its a short one, (ya get a break today)

: )

Taoe

I too am a positive woman living with a negative man and we've broken condoms before. The spermicide nonoxynol -9 that the condoms are generally lubricated with are not only spermicides but viricides and can kill hiv. He should go pee right away when that happens and make sure you are lubricated enough and that there is enough space left at the tip of the condom to catch the sperm without breaking the condom. We've had that happen several times, it happens but you live and learn, and my husband is negative and will remain that way, as long as we continue to be safe. We also have discovered true intimacy is not relegated to only sexual intercourse and penetration which makes us creative lovers. It is also much harder for a woman to give it to a man than it is for a man to give it to a woman. Hope this helps.