I've been thinking about honoring my own limits & boundaries. I still have a problem doing that. I soon become over-whelmed so it's really important for me to be aware of it. I think part of the problem is that I want to feel useful (so I must keep busy) Also, I don't want to appear to be unfriendly or selfish. I also don't want to hurt people's feelings. I often think that at my age I would know how to deal with this...but I don't. So if anyone out there has advice I would appreciate it.
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