In middle school I had really close friends. We'd talk a lot and hang out all the time. When we went to high school we started drifting because we didn't have classes together, I don't mind that because I wanted to be able to make new friends. I don't know why but I can't seem to make friends and get closer to them. I don't know how to act around people I'm not close friends with. My used to be close friends made friends that they are now close with and I feel weird asking them to hang out. In my head I'm thinking, maybe they want to hang out with their other friends, or something like that. I still have some classes with one of my close friends, but I don't know why but I kind of don't want to be close to her anymore. She changed a lot after 9th grade. I still like her, but she's just not filling the lonely feeling I have. I feel so disconnected with the world. Once I come home from school I talk to about one person and that's it. I don't have a best friend and I've wanted a best friend for the longest time. Not best FRIENDS I just want one. That I could always talk to about ANYTHING and count on and never get mad at. Basically what I'm asking from you guys is tips on how to get closer to people, and how to get to know or talk to them.
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