High School Stress Support Group

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For a year now

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theres been this guy.
We were together last christmas...i fell for him.
He broke up with me. I didnt deal with it very well.
But to cut the long story short, every few months or every month, he tells me that he still likes me and regrets breaking up with me.
This has prevented me moving on from him. And yet when he tells me things like this, nothing comes of it. I get sucked into his little trap again, whilst he just carries on normally.
I dont know what to do. He told me these things again last week. And now, he acts as if nothing happened whilst i think about it 24/7.
What do i do?! Im fed up and i get so down about it.
No one understands though. I tell my friends, but because they dont like him they just expect me to move on again and they dont understand the hurt. I love him. It isnt that simple!
Please help. I need advice.
Thank you.
Ps - sorry about the essay!! haha.
deleted_user
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it sounds like he's afraid of committment
deleted_user
deleted_user
Someone else has said that to me. But what should i do about it? Do i talk to him about it?!
deleted_user
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If he can't make up his mind, the best thing might be to cut off all contact with him for a while. By that I mean no hanging out, no phone conversations, no email, no instant messaging, etc. This way, both of you could take a step back and get a better perspective on the whole situation. It'll just be a lot less stressful in general. I was in a somewhat similar situation where neither one of us were really sure what we wanted and the whole thing was just getting prolonged causing more hurt. This was the only thing that worked. I hope you can figure something out though!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thank you. That helps.
I think i will.
I don't want to lose him though.
If i stop talking to him, won't our friendship just deteriorate?!
deleted_user
deleted_user
You guys could always start talking again a while later. I did that with my ex. We're not best friends, but we can spend time around one another and talk without any problems.
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