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Women's flirtation signals

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Maybe this was asked before but it has been a while since I have been back here. What are some signals that women give that she is interested in someone? What kinds of signs do you ladies give that lets a man know it's okay to possibly give you a kiss? I have been on a few dates with this lovely woman but I am very nervous about kissing her, I want to but I don't want to receive a "what the fuck?' from her. Can anyone help me out?

Thanks, Teach29
jimmysquirrel
jimmysquirrel
it has been a few dates. Well, what does her body language say? does she stand within the personal bubbly area? does she constantly put her hand through her hair?i know a really good one that ppl do subconciously, is that one foot will be pointing to the person that they are most interested in when talking in a social setting.
Does she ever lean in while talking to you?
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when she gives you the "eyes!" oooooh yeah.
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I've found through experience that there's a couple of signs!

The main one is the tongue in the ear!! When that happens things are looking up

OR

Drawing a black moustache and beard on their DS picture!!!
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yeah!
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Watch that show called "The pickup artist", it is REALLY interesting. I have never gone past a second date without a kiss, but we all move at our own pace. If you wait too long she might wonder if you are too sheepish. Since she's obviously agreed to see you on multiple occasions now, I would say you would be safe in pursuing a kiss....that's probably what she is waiting for! Lay it on!!! Good luck!
deleted_user
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Thanks everyone, I'm meeting her for our 3rd date today, going to see a movie, think I'll give a kiss a try. I am just so nervous, I haven't kissed another woman in so long and since the divorce it's been a while as well.
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Can I say 1 thing teach29?

Movies are a bad idea so early on!!

You're stuck in darkness not being able to talk!! Doesn't help you build the rapport, check out body language etc!!

Take her somewhere, where you can converse and see each other.

Its good to talk!!!
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Hold her head and tilt it so her neck is exposed. Give her a kiss on the chee, closer to the neck. If she does not bulge, slowly but passionately work your way to the mouth...gently...do not slobber...suck the air out of her mouth while playing with her tongue.

As for signs, I gawk at my man if I am interested. You would feel it.
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