that is complete bullshit. whoever called you that and cowardly ran... he is what i like to call a douche. (and btw ladies, douches are unhealthy for ya, the clean the body of juices that are supposed to be there)

There are some long established stereotypes .. and .. truth is .. they were never right to begin with ..

Please .. don't allow this person to turn you inside out ..

They are quite mis-informed .. and .. quite frankly .. just plain wrong ..

My wife has a very healthy sexual appetite .. for me .. it is a blessing ..

Thank you for bringing this up ..

Slowly .. we must make all these false statements become a thing of the past ..

My heart aches for you .. there is nothing wrong with you ..

Please take the comfort of others .. who know different ..

Thanks for sharing ..

Yes the Patriarchal basis of society and also it scares lots of men. I am amazed living in large Moslem area at the Burkhas the women not allowed out or to drive or worrk or use the phone. I dont think it will change for a long long time. Maybe when sex and power separate

If he didn't run we would have run him out of DS for you. That attitude is useless around here. Women get called sluts from guys who find themselves unable to bed the girl in question...Usually broken heart, or jilted lover...or just plain old stupid boy mentality.

WHere does he live Let's get him!

Yeah, lets get the a-hole. I'm sorry that happened to you but you gonna find men all the time who are afraid of a woman who can express herself sexually. I've been called slut, whore, and everything else but it doesn't change the way that I view myself because I know that's not me. You know who you are, don't let him upset you. You see he ran just like a punk. Like a dog with his tail in-between his legs....I hate guys like that. Luckily not all of them are like that!

I agree, it is a hypocritical double-standard in a patriarchal society that has been going on way too long, and shouldn't gotten started in the first place. Love yourself and f--k what this douchebag says to you.

ok I my 2 cents here too. Boy these topics have been great lately! I have been in all kinds of alternative lifestyles for years, and have been deemed a slut many times. Its my choice to choose who and when I have sex with! It is my body! I am always safe, of course. Recently, I did sleep with my boss-ok not the smartest move but get this: I got moved to another prison, wrote up, put out on 3 days leave without pay and basically f**ked. Know what he got??? Nothing! not his fault, its just the way society is. Its good going pimp daddy for him, and bye bye for me. Messed up I tell ya. But the good thing is now I'm at a closed prison doing bs security checks all night by myself. Lots of movies and books! And noone to bother me.

thank you all for your support. the saddest thing is that we had (what i thought) was this great relationship. i thought it was special. i feel the walls slowly going up in regards to internet relationships because i get involved and i care too much - then i end up getting hurt in one way or another.

another sad thing, i know he will be making a new account on ds and will hide behind that.

thank you all again for being here for me.

How unfortunate that even in this day and age some people ( men and women are equally as guilty of it) are still so egotistical and archaic that when a woman enjoys a healthy sex life she is deemed a slut.

Lt9Tonya, omg I guess that proves the whole point here doesnt it?

At times though women are even more guilty of doing this to other women. Example... My friend has been lusting after her co-worker for years. he just got a new girlfriend, My friend knows nothing about her...yet calls her a slut all the time....

Sheesh, what era will people grow up??