For the last 4 years, my husband has had little sex drive. In the last two years, I can count the number of times we've had sex on one hand. We've gone as long as 10 mos w/o sex, and we are currently on our 6th mos. When I bring it up, he just tells me our past fights have made him not feel close to me. I am absolutely certain he is not cheating, but I am ready to leave our marriage because I feel so neglected. I have started to question everything about myself - my looks (I'm 5'5 and 130lbs) my self esteem has suffered badly. I'm at a true loss and bordering on depression I think. I don't want to end my marriage but our sex life is causing me gtreat stress. Nothing I do works. I don't want to leave him, I love him, but I miss having a physical relationship with someone.
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