Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I realize this is kind of a dumb question and I feel somewhat silly asking it but I know this is an open, supportive website where you don't have to be ashamed to have frank discussions or ask embarrassing questions.
To preface, I'm a virgin (don't laugh) and have zero experience with women (never even kissed). So all I have with regards to sex is my imagination and information I read about.
My question is for the men and women on the board but since I'm a man I'd like to hear the male experience mainly. It's this -- What does intercourse physically feel like? I'm not asking about an orgasm since I'm very familiar with that but rather what it feels like to penetrate and be inside a woman's vagina. Is it very warm and tight? Is it very slippery and moist when a woman lubricates? Does it make you feel bonded to your partner in a very intense way, almost like you're part of the same being?
And for the women, just because I'm curious, what's the sensation you get when you're penetrated? Is it like you're being filled up or something similar? I thank all you members in advance.
To preface, I'm a virgin (don't laugh) and have zero experience with women (never even kissed). So all I have with regards to sex is my imagination and information I read about.
My question is for the men and women on the board but since I'm a man I'd like to hear the male experience mainly. It's this -- What does intercourse physically feel like? I'm not asking about an orgasm since I'm very familiar with that but rather what it feels like to penetrate and be inside a woman's vagina. Is it very warm and tight? Is it very slippery and moist when a woman lubricates? Does it make you feel bonded to your partner in a very intense way, almost like you're part of the same being?
And for the women, just because I'm curious, what's the sensation you get when you're penetrated? Is it like you're being filled up or something similar? I thank all you members in advance.
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I always regretted the sex I had where there was no deep, emotional link. In those situations, I would always feel as though I had betrayed myself.
With the one you love and who loves you, it is a way to physically share the love and closeness you emotionally feel.
I think your imagination is serving you remarkably well!!! For me, it is indeed a bonding experience is which you both feel as though you have become one.
I think you're in for a VERY big surprise though, as to what the orgasm part will feel like. Orgasm as you know it will likely to be such a pale imitation to what you will experience when you have one inside someone you love and who loves you that you will be totally and utterly amazed that such a feeling can exist. It is Heaven.
Sex is great but there is so much more to a relationship. If you have a good relationship, truly care about one another, enjoy spending time together and can communicate honestly, then sex can be incredible. If you think you are going to get those things by having sex, you are in for a disappointment.
The sensation I get when penetrated depends on the size of the penis, the speed at which I'm penetrated and the amount of lubrication. It's the clitoris and/or cervix that is important. A lot of men mistake the vagina for the clitoris and don't understand why women aren't oohing and ahhing with pleasure. It feels great mainly around the opening of the vagina and when the penis contacts the cervix. Most important thing is to know a woman's anatomy before you explore.
I don't know if you are trying for children or not so I would use a condom. Even when they say they're on birth control. Not so much for them but for my state of mind.
You must first have good communication and a great relationship to fully enjoy your first time. there are vulnerabilties with the first time that you don't want to just be with anyone when the time comes.